I"m trying to find opinions top top what people think is the many typical/common definition and intent for most women picking this option?


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phineas

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This.

You are watching: Wants to date but nothing serious

Ignore what a woman puts under on pof.

 

Most speak they want a relationship just so castle don"t watch slutty but they will certainly go home with a guy on the very first date if they find him warm enough.


 

Except quite a few of them add in the further details something follow me the currently of exactly how they are not trying to find a hookup.

 

I was reasoning it method she desires to speed day through allot the guys, however does not desire them to gain too close when she secretly wishes to discover something special?

 

does this sound rite?


I have good luck ~ above POF.

 

Honestly ns say I desire a relationship because that"s what many women want. To me "dating" is code for "looking for a good time" and also will repel some woman.


"wants to date however nothing serious"

 

I often see this top top the dating site POF

 

I"m in search of opinions ~ above what human being think is the most typical/common definition and intent for most women selecting this option?


 

They aren"t dating v the goal of a committed relationship. They choose being solitary and date casually or similar to hook ups. If you space dating because that a relationship, don"t date these women.


Some world take the literally and just want to gently accomplish people and see where it goes.

 

Some world use it to refer to simply wanting to go out.

 

Some human being use it as simply want a shag...

 

Only way to uncover out what her interpretation of the is - is to ask her.


I take it at confront value, for this reason something an ext than a one night stand however less 보다 a boyfriend, i.e. Fun without lengthy term commitment. They desire sex but they desire to it is in wined and dined a little bit too.


To me the reads " desires to date, however will put in the bare minimum of initiative required to make the happen."


"wants to date however nothing serious"

 

I frequently see this top top the dating website POF

 

I"m in search of opinions on what people think is the most typical/common an interpretation and intent for many women selecting this option?


 

I come throughout this A LOT. A many older women choose these act OLD. They room divorced, dont want a major committed relationship. They had a bitterness divorce and dont desire something severe again. They desire monogamy, and also sex will certainly come down the line. But they have a many things in their life. Friends family children tasks work and also once in a while they want someone to take it them out for a an excellent time or when her clit needs attention.

 

but its strictly "I continue to be here, you continue to be there and also once in a while when im bored or horny well acquire together for fun. The will never ever be more than that though."

 

no marriage, no relocating in. A poodle that will comes when she whistles.

 

btw, you get a many women that write "im searching for a serious relationship only" yet it method the same. Monogamy, but no relocating in or marriage.

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Posted September 11, 2015

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Posted September 11, 2015
"wants to date but nothing serious"

 

I regularly see this top top the dating website POF

 

I"m in search of opinions ~ above what civilization think is the most typical/common meaning and intent for many women choosing this option?


 

they want to "netflix and chill"--which is another means of saying FWB. They"ll call when they"re horny and also when it"s over, you gotta go home--you don"t spend the night.


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Posted September 11, 2015

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I come throughout this A LOT. A many older women like these law OLD. They room divorced, dont want a significant committed relationship. They had actually a bitterness divorce and dont desire something severe again. They desire monogamy, and sex will come down the line. However they have a the majority of things in your life. Friends family children activities work and once in a if they desire someone to take it them out for a an excellent time or once her clit requirements attention.

 

but its strictly "I continue to be here, you continue to be there and also once in a while as soon as im boring or horny well gain together for fun. That will never ever be much more than that though."

 

no marriage, no moving in. A poodle that will comes once she whistles.

 

btw, you gain a most women that write "im looking for a serious connection only" however it method the same. Monogamy, yet no moving in or marriage.


 

True. There are fairly a few of those in the 40+ crowd. It"s not a negative thing if you room also really busy through work, children, and also activities. I date them but I do it just on mine terms- she has to accommodate mine schedule. If I"m free I will watch her, if not I won"t. I"m not a poodle who comes when she whistles. If she can"t fulfill me ~ above my complimentary days it"s easy enough to uncover someone that can.


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Posted September 11, 2015

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True. Over there are rather a couple of of those in the 40+ crowd. It"s not a poor thing if you space also really busy through work, children, and also activities. I day them but I do it only on my terms- she needs to accommodate mine schedule. If I"m free I will watch her, if not I won"t. I"m not a poodle who comes when she whistles. If she can"t satisfy me on my totally free days it"s easy sufficient to find someone who can.

 

no that isnt. If both desire it. Im searching for a component B relationship. Im no in a rush, however do want to marry and also move in down the line. Basically a 2nd marriage. I have a difficult time finding a mrs for that. All had actually bitter divorces and also want a lengthy term relationship. However something thats convenient and also with "space and also distance" thats not for me though. I had something comparable with my ex. Ns hardly met through her kids. Only slept over as soon as the youngsters were at the father and also basically came there when or double a week, went out to dinner, had actually sex at night, slept over and then went earlier home the morning after. Ns wasnt component of the day to day. Talk yes, but there to be a lot of distance and space. And also I average this with physical distance ( 1.2 hour drive) and an are because there was always a obstacle of how close she would get. I never ever got an ext than what ns gave. The scale were an extremely weighted top top one side.


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Posted September 11, 2015

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It method she wants to store it casual. She desires to day you, probably have sex with you, yet not to go into a cursed stage. She might or may not be seeing others.


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Posted September 11, 2015

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"wants come date but nothing serious"

 

I often see this ~ above the dating site POF

 

I"m in search of opinions on what human being think is the most typical/common definition and will for many women choosing this option?


 

Translation:

 

I"m bat$#!t crazy and also even despite I"ll say i don"t want any drama in mine life, I"m a drama factory.

 

And I have actually a cat the won"t favor you.


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Posted September 11, 2015

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I personally noted "Wants come date but nothing serious", cuz I"m not actively seeking a relationship, but at the same time I want to date and if something comes the end of it, great. That"s mine perspective.


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Posted September 11, 2015

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I personally listed "Wants to date but nothing serious", cuz I"m not actively seeking a relationship, but at the exact same time I desire to date and also if something comes out of it, great. That"s my perspective.

 

I agree with you jams.

 

Everyone start out dating casually.

 

Then, if and when you fulfill someone you completely click with and also it feel right, you desire a RL with *that person*.

 

IMO, beginning out with you are looking for a relationship might scare off part people, as they could wonder ... ...with anyone?

 

Some human being may check out it as a little desperate.

 

I don"t carry out OLD ....so ns am simply speculating, yet that is what I would think.

 

Bottom line, don"t check out too much into it. Just meet and also see what wake up from there.

 

Edit: no to mention, how many times have actually we heard stories of world (men mostly) reasoning they *were* searching for a RL, only to uncover when castle were actually in one, lock didn"t desire it after all...

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phineas


Posted September 12, 2015

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Except fairly a few of them add in the more details something along the lines of how they are not searching for a hookup.

 

I was thinking it way she desires to speed day through allot of guys, but does not desire them to acquire too close if she secretly hopes to find something special?

 

does this sound rite?


 

And yet, I"ve hooked up v women who have said they were not in search of a hookup.

The weird component is ns didn"t even try to hook up with those women.

They came onto me. Lol


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Posted September 12, 2015

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And yet, I"ve hooked up with women who have actually said they were not trying to find a hookup.

The weird component is i didn"t even try to hook up with those women.

They come onto me. Lol


 

Ironically it seems the ones that say lock don"t want a hookup are an ext likely come hook up through you.


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Posted September 17, 2015

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Well, it is interesting how most civilization assume I"m spring to day a woman who placed this option.

 

My large secret - that is a shocker, for this reason prepare yourself.... It to be the choice my freshly separated (January this year) wife placed on she profile!!!

 

The juicy details room this.... Throughout our relationship she was basically not interested in sex, even prior to we got married. She has no sexy garments at all. Never once approached me for sex, doesn"t masturbate ever... And so on etc. The critical 3 year of the marital relationship we only had sex twice.... Before that all the rejection had worn me to the suggest i just offered up asking.

 

I was kind of trying out in a means as well, i want to see how long this woman will certainly go without speak or act anything around our sex life. The answer was apparently, "forever". But pretty stupid method of thinking on my part, and certainly no the only stupid point i to be thinking and also doing.

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Anyway, what else happened, once i an initial put my profile on POF the is as soon as i saw her profile, the following day it was gone. Ns presume she must have actually seen mine profile appear and did not desire me to recognize (i did not click on her profile, therefore she would certainly think ns did not view it).

 

I type of felt negative after that because i execute want her to it is in happy, and i have actually been wondering if i must encourage she to put it ago up,, but if she is after ~ hookups climate i can imagine the conversation would be horribly embarrassing because that her?